The End?

With so much to do and so much to prepare for…

…I find I have nothing left to say.
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GERONIMO!

So, hey uh….

I NEEEEEEEED you to go to this site and then I need you to stay tuned for a very important blog post scheduled to publish tomorrow morning.

Luh y’all…

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Conversations of Color: Blackness Outside the Box

In my most recent post I talked about the boxes black women put themselves in.

Here is a nod to all the people brave enough to be black outside the box.

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Conversations of Color: The Box We Drew

Swimming, Camping, Atheism, “white people music”, “white people food”, yoga, travel, therapy, hiking….

There are a lot of things “black women don’t do”

So what’s left for us to do?

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General Life Update: Single-versary

It’s the day before Valentine’s Day

and it’s been three years and four days since my divorce was finalized

and there are twelve days until my 32nd birthday…

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Conversations of Color: Pigmentation and Perception

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The paper bag test isn’t over…
And we’re the ones holding the bag.

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Conversations of Color: “My True Confession: I Advocate Swirling Because I Was the Black Man’s Cast Off”

Whoa, this was not written by me but I think it is VERY well-timed.
Read the comments and hate this woman experienced as a dark skinned woman from WITHIN the black community.

This is the rest of the black experience. This is the part “we” try to hide.
No more of this.

Choose love, choose compassion.

My True Confession: I Advocate Swirling Because I Was the Black Man’s Cast Off.

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Conversations of Color: The Boy who Hid Me

I’m an equal opportunity dater.

But one time, a boy was so ashamed of me he kept me hidden from his family…

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Conversations of Color: The Cult of Blackness

Shunning, Exclusivism, Isolation, Opposition to Independent Thinking…

Welcome to the Cult of Blackness.

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Conversations of Color: Comedian Celebrates MLK Day by Tweeting ‘I Love You’ at Racists

Comedian Celebrates MLK Day by Tweeting ‘I Love You’ at Racists.

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